Tomorrow is my third OB appointment. I am 3 months pregnant this week – and I have a list.
First Question: How soon can we find out what we are having? I know that some people have told me at 14 weeks and between 20 weeks. I just want to ask so that we know – so we can plan. 🙂
Second Question: We want a natural unmedicated child-birth – are you on board with that? I will feel really bad if my OB isn’t comfortable with that. Especially since I will be delivering around Thanksgiving. I know he will think – She’s going to give birth during my turkey dinner! He should have thought about that before he became an OB.
Third Question: Do either of the hospitals we must pick do water births? I love the idea of a water birth. I am learning more and more about it every day and it seems nice but it also seems – weird.
Fourth Question: How many people can be in the delivery room? I know Jeremy counts as one. So if I remember right it can be four (at Hutcheson – But I AM NOT going there). So that would mean room for three other people. There are about five people who may want to be in there so we will have to figure out who. I hate that…I wish all five could be in there – maybe they could alternate???
Anyway – that’s all the questions so far. Anything you can think I should add??
xo – S.J.